Why

The word 'why' doesn't seem intimidating on its own.  Just three letters, asking a question. But the 'why' questions can be very heavy.

Questions like: "Why am I not feeling any better?"; "Why aren't I smarter/cuter/richer?"; "Why can't I or didn't I make better decisions?"

These questions imply self-guilt. An inability to change.  It's the word that gets people stuck... stuck in the past and unable to move forward.

But how can I change the 'whys' in my life, so I can move forward?